I don't like having goals
Sometimes I’m talking about lifting weights and someone asks me, “What’s your goal weight?” I don’t understand why I would have a goal weight.
Say I want to bench press 300 pounds. What happens when I reach 300? I just give up on the bench press now? That would be silly. If I can keep getting stronger, I should.
What happens if I fall short of my goal? Say I haven’t been able to bench more than 285.1 Should I start eating 5000 calories a day to put on as much muscle as possible? No, I’m not going to do that, I don’t want to get fat. Realistically, if I fall short of my goal, the answer to the question of what I should change is “nothing”.
The point of a goal is to make tradeoffs between objectives. But when you set goals, you have less information about your costs than when you’re trying to implement them. At implementation time, you have new information that might change how you prioritize things, which may result in failing to achieve a goal; and that’s perfectly fine.
Sometimes a goal turns out to be easier than you thought; that doesn’t mean you should give up after you achieve it.
Sometimes a goal turns out to be harder than you thought; that doesn’t mean you should sacrifice everything else for it.
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